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*nt94gins
writes:There's this girl who i knew for a while and never talked to. a year later i started talking to her and we would hangout with friends together and such. i had various chances to kiss her and stuff and i could tell she liked me but i never made a move now its been about a year since i've even seen her and she ignores my texts and messages on facebook. i never excessivly try to get a hold of her but it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. i try to move on and not think about her but i always think of what i couldve done differently. what do i do because i still have a crush on her?p.s. I never have problems making friends. I'm just shy when it comes to making moves on girls because i dont want them to feel like I'm forcing things.
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reader, Ant94gins +, writes (17 May 2012):
Ant94gins is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the feedback your comments gave me a different perspective on the situation
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (14 May 2012):
If she doesn't respond then I guess your only chance would be to try to meet her in person again. Maybe via a friend of hers?
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (14 May 2012):
I think it is very natural to ponder about the road not taken. And also, it is easy to see things through rose tinted glasses when imagining how things could have been, and what might have been. This is just how we all are as humans.
The thing that will shift your mind onto pastures new is precicely that, pastures new. New friends, new experiences, new relationships. Allow yourself to enjoy new social experiences and opportunities, and that will move you on from the past.
And there is nothing wrong with showing an obvious interest in a new girl. Women love to feel that someone is interested in them, so I definitely think you could risk being more proactive in the future.
All the best to you.
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