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writes:I got married young and Iam very confused about what to do at this point. My husband and i have been married for 7 years and its been a ride. He has hurt me in the past in which i forgave him.Now he is giving me his all (i think) Now I have a lover on the side for the first time but I dont wont to leave my Husband. Our relationship is off and on one day we are happlier ever after and the next we are strangers. I hope that the years of hurt delivered from him has not effected how i feel because i wont my cake and eat it too. I love my husband but lust my lover and friend. iam just confused on how to handle this. Why cant i just have sex with my lover let my husband be my bestfriend and provider. Am i really over the years of my husband tricks? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): well watch you do not choke at the last mouthful. maybe you may possess such a thing called a conscious after all!
hope your hb gets a stinch of your lovers semen running down your legs. THEN he can have his cake and eat it too. It just won't be with you.
Becareful of the game you are playing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the feedback (for now) i will have my cake then pick one before (i lose everything).
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Why? Because you took a vow when you got married to forsake all others and let no one else come between you. No matter what your husband did to you it's not right to cheat on him. You may have your cake and eat it too - for now. Those things will always come back to hurt you in the end.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
You can only have one other the other, or you will lose them both. If your husband finds out, which he will eventually, he'll leave you. And no doubt your lover if just using you for sex because he knows you're not totally happy in your marriage and can use you. Pick one, or lose everything.
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