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writes:Ok then ... Hey peepsThere's this guy I like and have liked for roughly .... 2 and a bit years, and while I was with my bf I cudnt stop thinking about him so I dumped him bcos I felt guilty and also he was being really harsh 2 my friends.I have it on good authority that he feels the same way, but I have no idea how 2 1.) flirt in a really cool sophisticated, yet not slutty way2.) ask him out if he doesn't mke the first moveI don't want 2 appear desperate and totally obvious and I don't want to make it obvious 2 other peeps about.I already hav sum interests that r the same As him like the grand prix (BUTTON WON!!!! :D ) and music and sports , will this help ? Sorry 4 rubbish grammar and spelling; I'm on my mob :S
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reader, ShannonKinsz +, writes (1 November 2009):
the best thing to do is to be yourself, and dont try and be someone your not!! if you think you like him but hes to shy to chat with you, give him resun to talk to you!! when your out clubbing if you stay with your freinds, he might be shy to come up and talk to you, so sometimes when you think hes looking, smile at him and wonder of on your own, its possible that he'll follow you!!
hope i helped you a bit :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): I have no idea how to flirt be it cool and sophisticated or otherwise. But all you really have to do is talk to him. Do you know him well enough already that you can just strike up a conversation? If so then you're nearly there. Just chat, like friends. Get him talking about himself and his interests and show you are interested in what he's saying. You have common interests so that's great. Make eye contact too. Don't be looking away when you talk to him. Eye contact and smile.
When you're ready and feel comfortable (don't force it but don't wait too long either) just casually ask him out somewhere. Just ask him out for a coffee or I dunno, whatever it is the kids do these days. Is your school having an end of year dance or something like that?
If you don't know him that well and you're not quite confident enough to just march up to him and start talking, then just make a point of saying hi to him whenever you see him, like when you pass him in the halls or something. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Just hi in a way that says I'm friendly and I say hello to everyone. Be consistent. If you do it sometimes and not others you'll confuse him. After a while you can progress to asking him how he is and stopping to chat. Hopefully he'll at least meet you half way.
Some of the women here might be able to tell you how to flirt and be provocative, but I'm sure just getting into conversations with him and building up a rapport will be just as good.
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 November 2009):
If you try to act anything other than yourself, he'll see straight through it and not be interested. so just be yourself. If you have the same interests, that will be a great help because it means you both have something to talk about. So just start talking to him and finding out about him. You'll find that the more you speak,the more you will flirt naturally, and when you're sure he's teh guy for you, then go for it. Get to know him and be yourself. Good luck.
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