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Suggestive text messaging...is it an affair?

Q.   My husband has a female friend whom he often goes out runing with. They have been exchanging dirty texts and jokes for the past year which I have expressed my disatisafction over however my husband continues to send and receive such texts. Rece...

A.   24 September 2009: If you have expressed your dissatisfaction with the situation then yes it is cheating. He is your husband and has no business engaging in behavior that is hurtful to you. You told him it bothered you and that you were uncomfortable with it so it ... (read in full...)

Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?

Q.   My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...

A.   24 September 2009: Of course your boyfriend asked for it. They all want it and they all like it. It's not clear why you are scared. If you don't want to do it because you are afraid you won't be good at it then go ahead and try it...practice makes perfect. You can ... (read in full...)

What are your thoughts on how to do this the right way?

Q.   my girlfriend told me randomly one morning when she was really horny that she had dreamt about us having a mmf threesome. i was schocked at the time and i was pretty much speechless as she masturbated just thinking of the idea. later she took it ...

A.   24 September 2009: I would say there are three rules about group sex: 1. Make sure you really are comfortable with this. If you have any doubts at all about how you will feel having someone else do your girl while you watch then you shouldn't do it. Rent some porn, ... (read in full...)

Anal sex hurts me too much but I want to make him happy. Why doesn't it hurt other girls as much?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now. we have done pretty much everything in bed. except anal, he has asked to before, and says he wants to try it, so we tried. and i find it hurts way to bad.we have tried on more than one ...

A.   24 September 2009: You should never ever do anything that hurts you to please someone else. If your boyfriend is insensitive to your pain institute a you do it first policy. Buy a dildo and tell him to lube up. However if you would like to have pain free anal s... (read in full...)

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