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*eather17
writes:hi, im here for some advice on a friend. we are17 and juniors in high school. he has a gf. but we've become really close. we flirt a lottt. so i added him on fb the other day, and he immediately mssgd me. he asked to hang out and gave me his number to txt him so i did. he came over, met my mom, and then we went out. we got food and then got his haircut. while we were out, there was a boy that looked at me and my friend joked about it and said "you know.. i feel like i have to protect you. since youre so tiny.. youre like defenseless...". so we had a really good time that night. then the next day we hung out again. hes a firefighter so i met him at the station for his drill. while there, he kept calling me cute and flirting w me a lot. when we got back to his house, he kept tickling me and wrestling w me and picking me up. he gave me a hug when i left. then, we hung out last night. he kept making jokes about me sleeping over saying that i "couldnt handle one of his sleepovers". we snuggles on his couch and he kept lifting my shirt up to rest his hand on my tummy. he said "youre so small, i love it". he felt my hip and said "thats so sexy, your body is so cute". and we were talking about one of my friends who he hooked up w freshman yr and he said "youre so much cuter than her anyway so it doesnt matter". we were playing around and he bit me a couple times, so i bit him back on the shoulder. he said "wow... i like that jerk ! theres only one place worse" so jus being playful i bit him on the neck. and he bit me there backand kissed me a little and said " i did a lil more than bite that time". when i went to leave, he picked me up and showed his neck to me so i bit him and kissed him like he did to me. i left and we txtd for a bit and he called me a tease. he said i shouldve slept over bc we cldve fell asleep together. i mentioned his gf and how she wld be mad if i sleptover and he said she'd be mad if we were biting eachothers necks too and laughed. in ur opinion, did he cheat on her? does he want more w me? please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Yes he did cheat on her. He is a flirt and a guy not to be trusted. Now my question to you is why did you let this happen when you knew that he had a girlfriend? It is wrong on both of your parts to be acting like this. Look at it from another angle would you like it if you had a boyfriend and he was out with some other girl biting there neck and flirting? Am sure you wouldnt.
Yes he does want more with you, thats obvious. But dont fall for it because it will be you his girlfriend blames and it will be you that gets the reputation. So from now on just tell him you cant act like that with him because he is already in a relationship.
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reader, amenthyst3356 +, writes (1 May 2011):
Yes he is a cheater. How would you feel if the man you love and trust is flirting and biting other women's necks. I would be so upset he wants to hook up with another woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): In my opinion that does sound a little too intimate for just friends and I would advise you keep and eye on what you're doing and how far you're going. But I suppose if it doesn't mean anything it's not too bad. Just keep an eye on it and try not to keep doing it because it does sound a little too intimate for just friends. His gf might bet hurt by what the two of you are doing if she finds out. Of course you know it's harmless but she won't see it that way.
So just be careful with what you're doing. Personally I wouldn't mind but everyone has a different opinion on these things. Just think, would you like it if he was your boyfriend and someone else was doing that with him? I suppose it's a two way street.
But hey, it's up to you what you do and no one will judge you for it. Do what you think is best, I don't think he's cheating but if you're not careful people may see it as that or it may become that.
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