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*ei
writes:My husband wants to me always follow his idea and could not say no.If I have different opion then he star to angry .During last year, we almost have sex becuase he had on interested. we had no community because he didnt want. we had no secial life because he enjoy lonely.His favorit things are:play games and watch horrible move,drink Vodka. Drunk everyday.After married ,his behavors really changing to a stranger.Actually We just married one year .I still love him,this kind of life just drive me to crazy. What should I do now?
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reader, Mei +, writes (7 February 2008):
Mei is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank U.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (7 February 2008):
He is an abuser. He drinks alcohol to excess because he lacks responsibility and he feels ENTITLED. He gets angry with you if you have a different opinion to him because he is CONTROLLING. He abuses you because he is an ABUSER. He treats you like trash because he lacks responsibility in being married to you. He says he is uninterested in sex with you because he feels a sense of POWER in denying you intimacy and making you feel like trash because IT IS EASY TO CONTROL AND DOMINATE ANOTHER PERSON IF YOU GRADUALLY MENTALLY BREAK THEM DOWN SYSTEMATICALLY AND ISOLATE THEM FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
He is not ANGRY because he is ABUSIVE he is ABUSIVE because he is ANGRY. Please contact your local police or your local domestic violence crisis centre because you are in the cycle of violence and YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT.
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reader, Mei +, writes (5 February 2008):
Mei is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank U,Annalisa. I really have no idea how to help him get out of alcohol, recently he said he really enjoyed the feeling of being drunk .Before we married, we knew one year already but not live in the same city, maybe this is the big problem. Anyway, I am tired for these things.
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