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writes:Well there was this guy that I used to find repulsive but he started to change his attitude and I became attracted to him. We started to have some kind of connection but there was one problem there was a girl he was already hanging out with only they just talked to eachother and they hated eachothers guts,but I knew there was something there and as much as I wanted to tell him how I felt I didn't and waited out cause I wasn't sure how he felt for sure,also at my school were split Ito these weird teams for each grade and we are on the different team but he's on the say team as the other girl so they had more time to hang out. Anyway now there bf and gf and I don't think he should date her not because I want him but because I found out she doesn't like him. As much as he likes her and I'm affraid he'll be hurt in the future and I don't know how to tell him.also I've told myself many times he's not intrested and I should let him go cause he's just a guy but I can't and I've been lonley and depressed. So I wanted to know what should I do to feel better and fix this problem I could have avoided by telling him. Ps: I know I talk alot lol!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 December 2009):
You don't have to tell him a thing. There's really only one way to ever get over someone, and that's to immerse yourself in something else. Go out with friends, focus on your school work and your own life in general. The other thing you have to remember is that if he's going out with her, then he's not the one for you. Which means that your Mr Right is still waiting for you to find him. So find him. It will take time, but you have time, so focus on your own life and such and you'll be just fine.
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reader, marrowarrom +, writes (29 December 2009):
 Ok I've been found massively repulsive by girls at my school but I massively changed my attitude and recently found out 2girls like me haha but let it go shell prob end it when she's found another person then take your shot tell him how you feel if it's ment to be know things will come around good luck
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