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She's no longer with him but wants him there when she's having the baby!!!

Q.   I am a woman and my girl friend cheated on me, and now she is pregnant. She told me how sorry she was and that she would never do it again. I got passed that and told her that I will help her raise the baby and that's what she wants too. She's due ...

A.   28 March 2010: In all honestity the other posters hit the nail on the head here, in all honestiy she might even fall under this case study i read but thats besides the point You need to decide weather to stay with her or not no one can decide for you.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want sexy with me anymore after a 3 year relationship

Q.   Hello everyone, I got a girlfriend almost 3 years right now. Everything was very good in the beginning. After she went on holiday a half year ago, she said she doesn't feel attractive to me anymore. But that wasn't my problem. I changed her feel...

A.   28 March 2010: Dude first off if you can't write in english use a translator or something please make it so people can understand what your saying and Second sit her down and explain it to her fully you still have a raging sex drive that you need to take care of, ... (read in full...)

He's telling me he thinks it isn't working out ...

Q.   Hey everyone. I need help and fast. I met this guy a month ago and we went out 2 weeks later. So far we have been going out for 2 weeks and all of a sudden he is telling me that he thinks its not working out and his feelings are starting to go away. ...

A.   28 March 2010: ok first off let him go, if hes worth your time you will end up talking again that or try to do something with him after school. Second if you hang out with your friends all the time and you hang out with him 30 min a day wtf are your friends ... (read in full...)

We started dating too soon after she broke up with her ex!

Q.   I've dated a girl who is still getting over difficult relationship. Shes been with someone for a year and both were expected to get married, but out of the blue, he left her and that was it. 3 months later, we started going out. It went well, but ...

A.   28 March 2010: ok dude atleast shes got a sound reason to be upset a year is a decent amount of time to get upset about, just hang out with her, relax have a good time with her and everything will work itself out. Beleave me your lucky Ive had to deal with woman ... (read in full...)

Why does my girlfriend keep using dating sites, when we are supposed to be serious about each other?

Q.   Ugh! I'm sick and tired of trying to deal with problems. I cannot begin to tell you the feeling I have of possibly knowing that I could be sharing my girlfriend... Why say that? Because I found out that whilst I was away in HK she had gone back to...

A.   28 March 2010: Dude Really? tell her to stop using those sites or your gone, there are lots of sites that ARNT!! dating sites where you can meet people of other cultues to talk with. Simply sit her down and say "hey this isnt right by me so please stop" Ill ... (read in full...)

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