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I am 36, have been married young, seperated, fell in love, got dumped, cried, mended my heart and think that people deserve the truth. So although my answer may not always be what you want to hear, believe me I hated the truth sometimes too but in the end it is right and its the best way.

We are very sexually attracted to each other but when it came to sleeping together for the first time he lost his erection!

Q.   Ive been seeing this guy for a month we decided to wait for sex until we was both ready so we went away for the weekend just gone...we get on great...were very sexually attractive to each other...hes 29 im 22....so the night came and we kissed etc ...

A.   19 August 2009: yes very common, same happened to me, The fact is he is that attracted to you that he has an idea in his head of what it should be like when you have sex and then he panics when it finally comes to it that he loses his erection. This may happen ... (read in full...)

We never do anything together but she just says that I complain too much!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for around a year now, And we are currently on an 8 week holiday from college, And I've only seen her once in 6-7 weeks. And that was only after I spoke to her and told her that we never do anything together...

A.   19 August 2009: I think you know what's going on here and hope that if you keep the rose tinted glasses on it will go away. Well it wont, she is not interested anymore and doesnt want to be hurtful to you, she is trying to let you down gently. It is over and it's ... (read in full...)

He was a great friend. Should I contact him after all this time to offer my condolences.

Q.   Before I make a terrible mistake, I thought its best to ask for some advice. Please respond honestly and be blunt if need be. I just need an outsiders perspective. I was with my first love for almost two years. This time last year he broke my heart...

A.   19 August 2009: Send him a sympathy card, he knows why you cut contact. Get a card that is personal and just a nice polite note ie: I am very sorry to hear about your mother, i am here if you need a friend. This way he knows you are sincere and that you are... (read in full...)

Best friend always wrecking guys heads!

Q.   my best friend is messing my guy pal (who i really like) around and he is coming to me for suppport but i don't like it. she is always getting into scrapes with guys and wrecking their heads. she seems to always be leading them on by being too tou...

A.   19 August 2009: I am going to be harsh here and maybe you wont like it but you asked for an answer so here it is. Leave it up to them both, you DO like him and that is what is annoying you. He is a big boy, if he wants to let her walk over him then thats his ... (read in full...)

B/f friend masturbates over friend's pictures!

Q.   Is it normal for your bf to masterbate over your friends, by either thinking of them or looking at pictures of them? My bf has admitted that he does this. He also sed he likes the thought of cheating on me, is this normal? He often brings up ...

A.   19 August 2009: I agree it's normal to masterbate, but not tell your girlfriend!! That is completely wrong. Your self confidence has been knocked because of this and this is not on. If he has told you that he wants to cheat on you then it's time you left. He ... (read in full...)

Family vs girlfriend

Q.   This is kind of complicated, but I'll try to simplify as best as possible. I recently stared with a secret relationship with girl who is older than me and she and I are actuallly starting to fall in love with each other. There's plenty of re...

A.   19 August 2009: That is a tricky situation. Your family will always be with you when your girlfriend leaves although it is up to you to decide your own life. You cannot be ruled by anyone, you have to decide what it is you want. You have liked this girl for a ... (read in full...)

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