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writes: hi i have been seeing this lad just over a month but he went to america last week, lately he has been really weird to me and i have asked him whats wrong and he just shouts at me and he is always askin me if i have cheated on him it is making me believing that is him doing the cheating what shall i do plz help me Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 I am with Irish on this one. He wants out but he doesnt want to be the one to do it. So by making your life intolerable he will hope you do it instaed then he can walk away with a *clear conscience*! Tell this fool that you are onto his game then do one and get out with your self esteem intact.
I know it may hurt for a while, but it will hurt less than i the long run...honest.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2006): You are one smart cookie! He's going to make a run for it. Shouting at you is not only unecessary and painful but it's a clear sign of disrespect simply because he hasn't the balls to come clean and tell you the truth. He is blame shifting and playing mindgames, bigtime. He has a guilty conscience about something and I think you better rethink this relationship. He's being a cad to get you to dump him. Don't give him the time of day. He's not worth it. Get on with your life and try hard to forget him.Take care of yourself. Give yourself time to mourn. Move forward.
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