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writes: Short n sweet: having a textual affair with a man from work... if i am with someone, and he is someone, is it still considered an affair.
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reader, theGREATEST +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Yes, having any kind of intimacy with someone that isnt your partner is an act of cheating. Just think of it the other way around, Would you like it if your partner was having online sex with another female? I don't think so. And is this textual affair really worth loosing the other person? Just think about your actions and if it is truely worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): Your cyber sex isnt anonymous, you know the person in an outside relationship- thats an affair.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 First off, you called it an affair yourself.
You know this man as well? He works with you? What's stopping you from going the whole nine yards and meeting up with each other on a lunch break?
Yes, it's an affair. Even if you're not actually touching the guy, you're still having an emotional one. If your partner found out, I'll bet he'd be pretty upset. I know I would be. What you're doing isn't fair... if you and this man from work have feelings that are so intense you choose to have a secret textual affair with each other, why keep it a secret? Stop hurting others and just BE with each other.
That's all I've got.
xxIndia
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Well, since you both have partners, it's cheating when you know who you are talking to. I would be upset if my bf did that online with someone he knew, because it WILL lead to the physical part. And I would never ever do that to him!!! NO WAY!! My conscience would bother me big time!!
I think that you should stop it, if you love your partner. And the man is an employee at the same place you work at.. that is not too smart on your part!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): LOL!
I love it when such wrong-doers try to justify their actions to make themselves feel better.
Well done, you can now offically say you've had an affair with someone.
What are you going to do from this point? pursue it and further damage yourself and break the hearts of those who love you, or find some of the strength hidden deep within side youself and do the right and proper thing. It's your life and they are your options.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Of course it is. What makes it worse is the fact you know him personaly. IF you want to be sure about my reply, verify it with your partner. I think I know what he'll say too.
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