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writes:my girlfrend is about 35 days pregnant? but we dont want baby now? is thr any way to stop her from not becoming pregnant? will it affect her in later age,if she stop now? wat medicine should she take Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): hi this is somewhat relating to your story not sure about stopping it. me and my partner are looking to adopt a baby as we have been trying for nearly 3 years we currently live in the u.k. if you want to chat my email is [email address blocked] if you fancy chatting more.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 Hia get her off to the doctors. i strongly suggest you find a method of contraception also to avoid any unwanted pregnancies again. the only option i would say is adoption, although there is abortion but that has been known to affect the woman at a later date, due to complications. hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): DONT LET HER GET AN ABORTION!!!Its the killing of a innocent life!Its not the baby's fault you dont want it!Give it to someone who is desperate for a child and will love it for the right reasons!
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 Adoption or abortion is the only way.
You cannot get rid of a baby through medication like an illness.
You CANNOT stop a pregnancy on your own or through medication because it would be considered murder.
This is not an illness we're talking about here, it's a new life which YOU created. This is life.
If this baby would be unhappy when it's born, then do what's best for the baby and not yourselves because YOU brought this child into the world.
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 You both don't want the baby or is it only you on your own who don't want it!Well, if she wants to have the baby, you have to accept this. You can't make her to stop it! There is medicine today, but like with all medicine she can not just take it and be sure that they won't be any adverse effects. It could be that she could never ever have a baby again... Also if she doesn't want it herself and just does because you told her, it will affect her for the rest of her life! There is a little human growing in her belly and she can allready feel it. If she wants to keep it, it would be like murder to her to get rid of the baby.If you really love her, accept her decision and do your best to look after her and the baby.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 NO, dont try doing anything to that baby on your owne, you should really go to a doctor to do it the right way she can get a really bad infection and there is a chance she wont be able to ever have a child again and if someone finds out you killed a baby even if its not born you still can get introuble, go the the doctors and have an abortion, or she can go through the pregnacy and give the baby to a family who cant have a child! but get to the doctors befor it is toooo late!
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