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writes:My partner is very moody, depressive really we live together and share a mortgage. However both me and my partner are both still married. I have no contact with my husband but my partner has to have contact because there are children invovled. however his children are not allowed to meet me and share in my partners life. he has to go to her house to see children this is having an impact on our relationship because my partner is obessed about this issue and is often in a mood about it. I am finding it really difficult to tolerate the moods what can be done Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): Basically his wife has no grounds upon which to stand when it comes to dictating to him about their children. As a married father he has all the parental responsibility rights and should exercise these immediately.
However, you both need to have some understanding over how his wife feels, she probably feels very bitter over their break up and in some way sees this as 'losing' her children to her husband as his new partner. It's important for you all to sit down and set some ground rules for both you and the children and i think you would all benefit from Family Mediation. The law looks more favourably upon parents who can resolves these issues themselves and Family Mediation is a good place to start.
Best of luck.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 He should really go to court and try to fight that, i know when my parents got a divorce my dad tryed to hold us back from going to my moms and we went to court about it and he had no say in us going to my mom, so if he really wants the kids to come over take it a step up and maybe it will be easier and less stressful on him, do you think his x wife has something to do with this moody thing? try talking to him about it
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