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writes:I went out with someone 5 months ago. He was my first real love, i'd never loved anyone like i loved him! We was only together a month, we hardly ever seen each other, he got excluded for a week, and i went on holiday for 2 weeks. So we had only seen each other for 3 days. When he finished me i was devestated! I couldnt stop crying. The thing is i still in love with him! We are best mates, and i dont want to ruin our friendship if i tell him. I just dont know what to do. Can you please help me? Give me any ideas on how to either tell him and not ruin our friendship or get over him? Please?
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (26 October 2009):
 To be honest i would tell him how you feel but tell him if he doesnt reciprocate the same feelings you will understand, just let him know that. But if he doesnt, then move on and tell him you will move on and find love yourself and his chance will be over...
(just been through this myself... ex, was my best friend for two years, he didnt reciprocate the feelings, so i moved on adn he has been jealous and causing havok for two years...)
ANYWAYY....
tell him. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 October 2009):
I'll tell you now that telling him won't make a bid of difference at all. You have to be brave and accept that he's not coming back. To move on, you really need to make sure you have space away from him. You need to make sure you're keeping busy without him, make sure you're socializing with other males and females and really take your time getting over him. You have to allow yourself time and space.
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