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female
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anonymous
writes: I have a rather embarrassing question...During an intimate lovemaking session with my fiancee, I was blindfolded, and had earmuffs on so I couldn't hear anything..this allowed me to focus only on what I was feeling...and I was lost in the sensations. Anyways, right as I orgasmed for about the 2nd or 3rd time, (at the same time he orgasmed) I felt a wetness under me. Now he "pulled out" so I knew it wasn't him...It was a HUGE wet spot on the bed, which to my horror...was urine. Now I've had pretty intense orgasms before, but nothing like this has EVER happened to me, I mean, I didn't even get the feeling like I had to go. I think it all started when he suggested I 'let go' so that I could squirt. But now that this has happened, I never want to expeirence it again. I'm really upset about it, and I don't know what could have caused it. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): i usually suirt but wat u went through happened to me once and has never again.went to a doctor and he told me it was as a result of one cola drink that i took before having sex.he said i should avoid taking drinks before sex and that wont stop me from suirting.so if u happen to have taken a drink 30 mins before sex that day or time,that might have caused the problem.but i have always been told by my bf that am a special girl,so dont stress yourself by that because i think you are special too
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 February 2012):
if you are sure it was urine then you need to see the GYN for a work up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2012): this covered like...half the bed...it was most definitely urine. I have squirted before, which is a very intense and unique feeling. But this didn't feel like that...:(
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (1 February 2012):
A highly aroused woman will sometimes ejaculate, which is different from the usual type or orgasm. Some of my exes have, and my wife can as well, but not every girl I've slept with has managed this- not with me, anyway! It's different from the usual vaginal fluid- it's clear. odourless, tasteless, there's a lot of it, and it's NOT urine, nor does is come from the urethra. You are very fortunate to be able to achieve this, and you will be cutting yourself off from a lot of pleasure and true intimacy with your fiancé if you self-restrict your response. a lot of women would give their eyeteeth to manage what you two have managed and I'm sure your man is absolutely delighted that he can render you ecstatic this way. Get a waterproof mattress protector and keep up the good work!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 February 2012):
You certain it was urine and not ejaculate? The first time I "squirted" I was certain I'd wet my bed. There was a LOT and just felt like I'd peed a massive amount. It was really embarrassing until I realized it was definitely ejaculating and not peeing.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (1 February 2012):
You had enough trust to get seriously into a sexual encounter that's a bit outside the usual. The outcome was a bit outside the usual. If I was him, I'd be very proud to have gotten you so far into the zone that that could happen. What happened is an amazing testament to your trust in him. Hopefully his reaction is the same.
If you're uncomfortable with the outcome then you don't have to let it happen again. That's perfectly fair. But really, peeing the bed, under the circumstance, is hardly an awful thing. On the contrary -- so few people would ever trust their partner enough for that to happen. I hope he's a good enough guy to let you know what an amazing thing, you trusting like that, you did for him.
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