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writes: i met this guy with a our common friends, we had a relationship knowing that he is a single..after a few months his wife texted me to inform that my so called bf was married..i ended our relationship that but still he keeps on coming back to me, saying that he loves me and their marriage was totally disaster since at the beginning..his wife knows everything whats happening and as i can see their relationship was really disaster not only because im the reason, theres a lot more..we are still together he give up his wife, but the problem is his wife keeps on texting me bad words..she cannot accept the situation even all the people knows whats really happening.we are to move to and settle down together, but im hust worried what will be my future with him? he is still married with her, and still i cannot call him mine..what am i going to do?please help me.
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 I'm afraid that is the oldest story in the book, that his marriage is a disaster, he says that to get you to sleep with him. He just wants his cake and eat it. As for his wife calling you, well i would imagine she is hurt at his betrayal, and since she knows you are aware he is married, but still continued this seedy affair she will rightly be angry with you. If my husband cheated on me i would kick him out, and she would be dealt with too. And if you are daft enough to marry him, you know what will happen next...
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 January 2008):
 "the cow is already out of the barn."
Baby Duck, i think a little bit of pee came out when i read that, you're going on my xmas card list.
"we are to move to and settle down together,"
I'm so please that yet Another reasionship has come to fluition and have been built on the foundations of your bf being a liar from the very begining.
leave him in the filth he created.
If not. Watch you back 24/7.
Oh. and never ever ever have kids with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): You are too young and innocent to continue this relationship! This man is a predator who is taking advantage of your innocence. His wife is ignorant if she is calling you names. It is him she should be disgusted with. You are deserving of integrity. Stop taking his calls. Been there ...
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 The problem I worry about for you is his actions, his being untruthful in the beginning. If he's married and beginning a relationship with you, what would really stop him from doing the same with someone else while you're together. I hear so many times "I just can't believe he did this to me" come to find out the same thing was done to the person they were last with as well. The problem is if someone lacks integrity and is untruthful about their actions, just changing partners generally does not change that in them.
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