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writes:When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): I heard that using 'the sponge (birth control - though watch out it's 85% effective) really helps because it soaks up extra moisture. Also you might want to do some kiegel exercises every day; maybe getting tighter you might feel more.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 February 2008):
I guess you have heard the lot that wetness aint a problem and if your man says he has no problem with it why should you start doubting him.Believe me if you stopped getting as wet as you do you would be back here with another problem.Consider it a blessing in disguise and just enjoy it.
Take care
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to all who provided me with some input. =] i guess i need to just not stress so much. This really helped me. Thanks again!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Getting extremely wet is not a problem, but more a blessing as you will learn as time goes by. Your mate has no issue with it, so why should you?
The fact that you rarely orgasm might be a bit more of an issue, but may be related to your concern with the excess wetting. In other words, your needless worry about the wetting possibly gives you stress and retards your pleasure. Just ease your concern by laying a couple of towels down in your love nest and don't worry about it.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Yep. If he says he doesn't care - LISTEN TO HIM.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (7 February 2008):
 It is normal dont worry about it. It is actuall better for sex because it makes things run a lot better. It reduces friction, by acting like a lubrication. So most guys like it so chances are your boyfriends is not just saying that to make you feel better he probably likes it. And if you are not having an orgasim thats probably because you are stuck on the idea that there is something wrong with you and is hurting you mood and chances are its stopping you from reaching that point.
Just calm down and stop thinking about it. Stress during sex can be your worst enemy.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 you cant i dont think its a natural thing. Theres nothing wrong with being really wet, it helps the penis enter the vagina with less pain to either =] x
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Hi there,
don't fret, us guys love a wet pussy. Really!! It feels great and we know our girl is loving what we are doing. It is true there is little or no friction when a girl is very wet, but I don't get why you have to have a tight pussy to have great sex anyway. So don't fret, your boyfriend really does love your wetness and probably feels like a real stud as he's able to get you like that. If you stop fretting about it you will relax more and the orgasm will come more easily. If its you who is having a problem feeling him when you are so wet try closing your legs together when he is inside you ( this is what my partner does! ).
Good luck, and dont worry about it!
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