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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:We have been together for just over a year now, and it has been long distance. (Meaning. I don't get to see her that often, but at least once every month) We are currently enrolling in two different University, and she is 'trying' to transfer to my University. Nonetheless, that isn't what I am trying to ask.Last week, there was a problem with our relationship. It just felt like she didn't want to continue this relationship, but she confirmed that she still wants to continue. She acts differently compare to other girls, so it is kind of hard to understand how she feels sometimes. It is either she is actually different, or she is just pretending to act that way. Whatever it might be, it is a lot more difficult to understand her. Sometimes, I even ask my friends why she acts certain ways, but they give me answers that when I later. ask her. she tells me she didn't mean it that way. Like, sometimes when I call her, she feels like she isn't comfortable to talk, but in reality she only sounds that way, but she was actually smiling. that's what she told me. Most guys would think that she was in an uncomfortable situation to talk, but according to her, she wasn't. she just reacts differently. Ok, I take that as her own personality. Anyway, today she told me that the friend who drove her to the ferry terminal that day she wanted to come back so badly to see me asked her if everything was ok. Ok, that's fine with me, but than he asked if we had sex. like. he said something. 'AMS'. anger. something. sex. What he meant is when couples get angry at each other, sometimes they have sex to fix everything. And then. he asked her if she did it with me? Like. I find that extremely wierd. why would her friend ask something like that? Should I be concern, or am I just over-reacting? I know my girlfriend has guy friends, and I have girl friends, but I never ask my friends if they had sex with their boyfriend or not. Like, what is his objective? I find that extremely wierd. for someone to ask something like that. I know he cares. like, he is probably a friend who cares how everything is going with my girlfriend, but does he has to ask something like that? Like. .most of the time, isn't it just "Is everything ok? I saw that you weren't that happy that day, you fix the problem?" Right? I trust my girlfriend, but I don't trust him. So. seriously, am I just thinking too much? Anyone else ever in this situation before?Thanks for the help in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): If your girlfriends personality is a bit strange to you, then her friends are likely to be to surely.
He sounds like he was just caring. Maybe if you and your girlfriend split up he'll go after her but for the moment it sounds like you have her and thats it. It doesn't sound like anythings going on now at the very least.
But as I said, I'll leave it unless you get more disturbing comments from him back, in that case talk to your girlfriend.
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