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writes: Hi all,I'm Chris, a 17 yr old college student. I have a sorta weird problem with this girl at my college. She's called Natalie and she's same age as me (17). She's as tall as me, about 6ft, but since she started she has kept staring at me for some reason. So I asked my fried to ask her why, and apparently she does it with everyone. She's a brunette, slim and real attractive, she's got a real moody face but is real nice to talk to and she is always looking at me and I have become very attracted to her. I have tried soo hard not to be attracted to her but it's real hard not to. So last Thursday I asked my friend to ask her for her e-mail address and she said to my friend that she might or will give it to me if I go and ask her myself!Then the day before I was stood at the bus stop and she was stood on the corner and she kept looking at me as if to say 'come here, I want to talk to you', and I didn't say anything to her. I've spoke to her once and she's real nice to get on with!!But this is quite confusing for me as you can probably tell!!please help moi!!thanxs,Chris Reply to this Question
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 Hi there!
Come on Chris, get your head together! Of course she wants you to ask her yourself! Your both 17 and she will be expecting a little maturity from you. Nothing is worse than getting your mate to ask her out on your behalf at your age. but don't worry all is not lost there is plenty of time to redeem yourself! She said that she looks at everyone that way but she probably just didn't want to admit to your friend that she has a crush on you. You need to get yourself some confidence, and do yourself a favour and go and ask her out! the worst that can happen is she will say no, but atleast you will know one way or another but i am guessing you will probably be making her day.
Good Luck
Lillaum
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reader, LucidCupid +, writes (17 October 2005):
The eyes are the equivalent of smoke signals.They are there to attract attention and convey a message.It's okay to use them to show someone you're interested in them,flirting with your eyes can speak volumes,but there comes a time when you have to follow through with some conversation!It seems you may be quite shy,but you've already 'broken the ice' by talking to her once,so if you're genuinely interested keep the momentum going.It seems she may be shy too,so ask her for her e-mail if you need a conversation starter.Good luck!
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