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writes: About a week ago, I hooked up with a guy I met. All we did was make out, and by the way things went, I'm pretty sure he is a virgin. This was the first time we met. The next night we watched a movie together, but all we did was talk. We were both thinking about hanging out later in the week, and when that didn't work out, he called to let me know.It seems like everything that has happened with him leads me to believe he likes me, but he doesn't initiate anything. I'm just wondering if I should back off, or continue on the path I'm on.How can I get a shy/virgin guy to open up?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 He seems a really nice guy who just wants to give you space and not pressure you into anything you don't want to do. If only all guys were like that! I think, if you like him, you should persue this and see what happens. He'll open up as he feels more comfortable with you so be patient, talk, get to know each other.
People expect things to happen like they do in the movies and that's just not how it goes in real life. I know we all want to be swept off our feet sometimes, but maybe he doesn't want to scare you off either so it keeping his distance!
Just take your time and see how things go. Good luck :)
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reader, lillaum +, writes (17 October 2005):
 Hi there!
The basis of any good relationship is communication! so talk to him, find out delicately if he is a virgin. Try and be sensitive. If he is a virgin dont push him, he probably feels under pressure enough. Just take things nice and slow and enjoy getting to know eachother. If he is just shy then do the same. He may have been in a bad relationship before and feels that he needs to get to know and trust you more before he sleeps with you.
Good Luck
Lillaum
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