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Things are tearing us apart, how do I fix them?

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Question - (14 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *msoinlove writes:

ive been with this girl for 8 months now, at first it was great...but things in her family and things that happened between us are commanly beign brought up now and it is tearing us apart and i dont want to break up with her, i love her... how could i show her how much she means to me and how could i make things better betweeen us ?

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A male reader, imsoinlove United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2009):

imsoinlove is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks to everyone who has replied i will try some of the ideas and hopefully things get alot better,

P.S i bought hur a ring for christmas :) x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2009):

You tell her how much she means to you, then you explain that you're worried that your relationship is falling apart. Then you say that you'd like to fix it, and you ask her what you can do to make it better. Then you listen. And listen to every word she says.

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A female reader, loveu2010 United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2009):

loveu2010 agony aunthey all you need to do is tell you love her lots and tell her how much she means to you you sound as if you really love her and thats great because you dont come across genuine guys that often take her out once in a while and show her that you care talk about the things that have happend if they are bothering you xx its not just you to be there for her she should be there for you too any way i hope this helps let me no xx *hugs*

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A female reader, Honest_Answers United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2009):

Honest_Answers agony auntBe there when she needs to talk, listen when she's talking, don't say you understand or partonise her, just let her talk things through and give her loads of cuddles! Don't be too clingy and bother her all the time, if she's having a rough time of it then she may well need some space - as might you, you don't want to be on the recieving end of her bad mood!

Good luck - you sound like a lovely lad!

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A female reader, ktb223 United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2009):

well something you could do if you havent is tell her you love her, if u have done that already is you can get her an amazing christmas presant an im not talking bath stuff i mean jewelrey i no it sounds shallow but that kind of stuff works with girls trust me hope it goes well x

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