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writes:so i broke up with my bf, and he insists on being on good terms with me.. i know he loves me and he might have hope or maybe im wrong. but he just asked me out to dinner and hes like im not asking u im telling you. i want us to be good terms and we both agreed to be friends so we can see each other. i said id think about it, and he replied that theres nothign to think, its simple. Now i was just abit surprised hes insisting on it, yet i told him he doenst owe it to me no more. the thing is im scared to tell him i dont want to come and see you and have this dinner and just be friends... hes making me feel like hes over me by askign this, and i cant do it. he knows its not easy for me and he said its not easy for him either but i want us to be on good terms.. im so sick of that word, why does he care so much now that we're not together.i love him alot but he has some issues with himself and hes not ready to have a relationship. so i cant just take him back, i broke up with him before too and by becoming friends again, i allowed him back into my life intimately too.. now its like.. i dont know.. someone please some advice? thank you in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Stay away from him. He isn't allowed to tell you what to do, and if being friends with him before led to getting back together, don't make that mistake again.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 December 2009):
I'm sorry, but you have to end contact with him. He said 'I'm not asking you, I'm telling you'. Don't be bullied by him into something you don't want to do. Your instinct is telling you it's wrong, so trust your instinct. My advice really is to let him go. Don't be bullied,
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