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writes:Hi, any psychological help on the following, last night was the very first dream I could remember for a really long time. I'm not sure if it could mean something.... It goes like this, there was this house, a house which my family and I stayed in many moons ago. Everything was the same as it was 15 years ago. We were sitting in the sitting room, my dad 2 work colleagues of mine, both males, and my brother. In the dream we are all the age and look like what we do now. My dad started talking the bible something he does when people come over, I was sitting next to one colleague which I fancy, I was laying on his lap and then all of a sudden a bird, a old pet of mine, a yellow cockatiel which I loved very very much, he died 4 years ago, he came into the picture and I got up to put him away when a snake, a rattle snake, but was red and white in colour wanted to take the bird but the snake bit me. A good family friend then popped into the room. He said, 'don't worry it will all work out in the end.' Does anyone know what this can mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, thank you so much! This actually makes so much sense now that i have an understanding about it. I would say that something is troubling me, i have been in a causal relationship for about a year and 5 months now, after i told the one colleague, in the dream, that i have developed feelings for him. Everything with me and this 'casual' guy turned upside down. He does not care about me the way he did, he does not even bother to phone or say that his home okay, he will ignore my calls actually if i ask him if we can go see a movie he always says his busy working. I know his made some arrangements to immagrate to new zealand, i know his taking his mom with and i'm not even sure if i'm part of this plan of his. I am so afraid of losing him but i know he will never love me the way he loved his ex-wife, they dated for 13 years and were married for 2 years, she left him for another guy.. He has said that that the crap part with me and him is that he cant love or respect someone the way he did her. Going to the snake part, i have had sex with him a few times but i have gotten to point where that seems to be the only thing he wants, like then i'm good enough for his needs. I dont want it to be that way.... The new zealand story has been bothering me so much that it has even started to affect my work.... I'm so lost, and so confused, i'm really afraid, its actually sad....
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Eve has given a very thorough interpretation of the dream. I don't think mine is as thorough, but I'll add my two cents' worth since I studied dream interpretation (really fascinating).
First of all, a house in a dream represents the self- it represents you.
Second, one key to analyzing a dream is to think about what's going on in your life right now. It sounds like the other posters are correct in saying that you are worried. What is going on in your life that's troubling you?
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Nicely done Eve,
There is a bit of something in the dream about the passage of time. Also the colors are interesting. Could red yellow and white represent a sunset. Colors usually mean what they would mean to the dreamer if awake.
FA
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 The house you were in denotes happy memories, your dad sitting with you means stability. You always look on the sunny side of life but you'd love to have more freedom away from rules and regulations and this is symbolised by the bird as dreaming of birds (flying) represents joy, harmony, ecstasy, balance, and love. You want to experience spiritual freedom and psychological liberation as you're growing older. You are content (with your dad close by), lying in the lap of this colleague and the bird coming into the picture confirms this.
Being bitten by the snake in your dream signifies hidden fears and worries that are threatening you. Your dream may be alerting you to something in your waking life that you are not aware of or that has not yet surfaced. Alternatively, the snake may be seen as phallic and thus symbolize temptation, dangerous and forbidden sexuality. If you are afraid of the snake, then it signifies your fears of sex, intimacy or commitment. The snake may also refer to a person around you who is callous, ruthless, and can't be trusted. As a positive symbol, snakes represent healing, transformation, knowledge and wisdom. It is indicative of self-renewal and positive changes. The friend usually symbolises good news on the way.
~Eve~
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
It sounds like there's something you're very worried about, or there's something in your past that you haven't resolved. Sit down and try to think if there's anything in your life that is causing you to worry. x
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