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writes: Hi, I'm 15 and dating this really great guy. We can talk about anything and are pretty comfortable with each other. My problem is that when it comes to being 'intimate' I freak out. All we've done is make out but I think he'd like to go further if I want to. I think I'm ready but I don't know what to expect. How can I make a move and what should he expect? I'm kinda confused 'cause I like things to be right and if I'm ready to be with this guy even if it's not 'all the way' I want us to be happy with what we're doing. What can I do to be more comfortable sexually? Reply to this Question
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reader, ferraro-lisa +, writes (1 January 2006):
from experiance, it took 3 months before i did anything with my boyfriend except kissing because i was not ready and didnt feel right. ur body knows when your ready and you have to be careful to what you say yes to, dont rush into anything to quickly. just remember what i just said ok dont rush just be careful. you didnt mention that boys age which would help alot.
many wishes to you both xx
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reader, ask aunty heather +, writes (1 January 2006):
just take things slowly. dont do anything you feel uncomfortable with. spend more time getting to know him. it sounds like you have handled the situation well so far. think about what you want. are you ready to loose your virginity....is he the right person to do that with. your virginity will never come back again...just be sure that you give it to the right person, because youll remember loosing it for the rest of your life. make sure you use protection. if you are unsure and confused about things get yourself a good journal and explore your thoughts on paper. writing it down will help. dont let him pressure you into doing things you dont want to do
the age of consent is there for a reason.
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reader, cornwall +, writes (1 January 2006):
Of course you are too young, but taking that aside, you are probably not as close as you think. The best relationship, is when you can talk about everything... including the disasters, which is what is worrying you. Take some more time. and it will be special. If he diappears, he is not the one to lose your virginity to. If he is.. enjoy!
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