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anonymous
writes:Hey ok ive never had a bf before but to be hoenst never really wanted one. But i seriously love this lad who i'm friends with now theres times which are most of the time i just long to be with him but i also think he may like me back(me and a friend are trying to find out) and then when i actually think of being with him i start to think "but would it work out, wouldn't that get in the way, what if this, what if that" so yeah i suppose i start to wonder if i really do love him but deep down i know i do. Is tis nromal or could it be telling me something? Also although i don't know him all that well we aren't really into the same music or anything but i think we do have some things in common but i'm afraid he'd find me boring or the fact that we may not have a lot in common would reck everything. Like he's well into music and stuff and is in a band but their music isn't the same taste as mine, i don't mind and gald that he's eally into something but the fact that i'm not shoudln't chnage much right? Also because at college they don't really like me becasue i'm different could that cause a problem casue we have the same group of friends but he doesn't do stuff as much as the others and its obvious theres something there, infact sometimes i wondr if he's been teased for liking me. But i dunno about that, just is all this normal or what? is it telling me something isn't right an could it work out? Reply to this Question
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 well u know hun opposites attracts..so be the way you are..if they are sparks then fine otherwise just move on!!for continue being friends,be flirty and try lookin as hot as u can when u are with him lol
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reader, salvation +, writes (20 April 2008):
yes its normal to wonder especialy for teenager we have a tendency to worry too much. Relationships take a lot of work its a give and take thing so yes if you both work at it it will work and you will be happy. As for being teased it shouldnt matter.
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