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writes:I really like this guy... We hung out twice and ended up sleeping together. I hadn't had sex in a while and figured we'd hang out and eventually go our separate ways. I've gotten closer to this guy and I really like him. I wish we waited to have sex. We were cuddling in bed and I told him I wanted to wait to have sex again because I think we slept together too soon. Shortly after he asked if I was on my period. I was but that wasn't the reason why.. It's because I want to fall harder for him. Tonight he asked me if my period was still attacking me! I feel like just a piece of vagina. It's bothering me but I don't know how to bring it up if at all. I want to have sex with him just as bad as he wants me but the way he said it :/ What do I do?
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 Don't have sex with him, simple as that. If he really wants a relationship with you, he will wait until you're ready again. If not, and he disappears off the face of the earth, then you know he considered you as just a fuck.
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reader, aebniala +, writes (1 September 2011):
You did good, more girls should do that, becose it break the tension in a man, he is more likely to be more of himself.You get the real us, by doing that, more open.
Abouth your period,It's probebly bothering you more than him. We sometime afto follow the rules, that you have set up for yourself. We are pretty mutch down to earth, simpler than you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011): Sexual standards that you only live by half the time are not your real standards. They are an act that you sometimes fake to make a false impression on some people.
If this guy was going to like you better for making him wait then it won't work to make him wait now. Nor would it have worked if you made him wait but he found out that you didn't always make other guys wait.
So don't worry too much about it. It's over and done with. Besides, he may not really have less respect for you now because you slept together quickly anyway. Not all guys feel this way.
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