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writes:My ex broke up with me and i was devastated because i was deeply inlove with him. After going through alot of pain, i managed to pick myself up but still stuggled to accept and come to terms with it all.Its been about a month now. A couple of days ago my ex text me asking me to meet up with him. i knew it might be the wrong thing to do but i cudnt help myself and i was curious. I met him at a bar where he was quite drunk. He said so many nice things to me, i was drawn in. He said he wanted to stay the night with me and i agreed. We slept together that night. When we woke in the morning i asked if he regetted anythin and he said no. I asked if he wanted to be with me and he said he needed time to think. Since then he has not contacted me and ignored me completley. I am distraught about the whole situation. I'm goin through more pain than i was when he first broke up with me. I feel humiliated and used. I dont know what to think. I've sent him lots of texts but he never replys. All the old feelings have come flooding back and i really want to be with him, despite everything thats happened. What should i do now? Did he just use me? How can i move forward from this? please help x
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (6 August 2007):
 This SWINE contacted you when he knew full well you were at your most vulnerable stage of getting over him. As soon as you saw him drunk,alarm bells should have rang as loud as Big Ben, I would have walked out and gone home, this was the stage when this guy had his beer goggles on, and literally charmed the pants off you. Now he is seriously regretting his action, and behaving the way he is.
Don't text him, he is simply not worth the tears, move on my love. There will be a guy out there for you who is million times better than this player, trust me I have been there. You know what they say, What goes around comes around, he will get his Just Desserts one of these days.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 I am with hlskitten. In a painful and twisted way, he did you a favor by showing you who he really is. Now you know that he used you, and he doesn't love you; you just don't use people you love. Pick up all the pieces again, and move on. Resist the urge to text him, call him, whatever. You deserve a hell of a lot better than this man.
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reader, vicki-b +, writes (6 August 2007):
 i think he did just use you. people say alot of things when there drunk some people say the truth others dont. i think you shud just forget about him and move on with your own life get together with some friend and have a girly night and leave him alone he'l soon realised what hes lost x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 HiYes he just used you. But learn from it, put it down to experience. He had been drinking, wanted a shag and called on you.Im sure if he was sober he probably wouldnt of dont that but you are so better off away from this loser.What kind of person does that. Drink or no drink. I would be livid and extremely frustrated! But there is nothing you can do about it now, if only we could turn clocks back.You can move forward even better than before now though cuz you know even more that hes a low life. Hes done you a favour if anything!Take careC xxxx
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