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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Theres this boy i met a week ago but i already think i am in love. PLease help. I know he is bad news everyones warned me about him, even his cousin! But that if that isn't bad enough he is 15 an i am 11. I really like him, he is so funny, buff and nice an my hearts and mind is telling me to go for it.What would you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Trust me you aren't love with this guy. You have only known him for a week and you are 11 years old! This isn't the sort of thing you should be worrying about at your age. And if everyone else is telling you that he is bad news then listen to them! You might think it is cool and exciting now, but the 'bad boy' relationship thing always ends bad, trust me. Let it go and forget about him.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Normally I am not against age-gap relationships but there is a huge emotional gap between being 11 and being 15. It sounds like you have a crush on this guy and that is normal. However, you are just starting adolescence and he is somewhat older and maybe in a different place in his life. He may want a different sort of relationship to you and he may regard you as a little girl since you are a couple of years younger. The fact he has a bad reputation may just be gossip or may have some grounds - whatever the situation I would say leave this guy alone for a few years. If it was mean't to be then time won't matter so much and it gives you time to decide if you really like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Don't go there!! Your 11!! You don't need that in your life at your age. Bad boys to all girls of whatever age seem cool, but the reality of it is they are called bad boys for a reason. Go out enjoy your life and be glad you didn't go there.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007):
We all have to make our own mistakes in life and if you spent your life doing what everyone else told you to do then you wouldn't learn very much or get very far.
Take on board what everyone has said, be careful, but do what you feel is right. You say your head and your heart say go for it, if that is really true then go for it.
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