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anonymous
writes:okay, im a guy with a 5.3 or 5.4 penis, now, no matter how much i read online that "size does not matter" and "its how you use it", ive come to realize its bullshitnow, im 20 years old and every one of my friends has had sex at least 4 times, but me, nope, im the unlucky one, why?? cause im tiny and i know it, and its not gettin biggernow i want the gods honest truth, cause i dont know how much longer i can stand being the only virgin out of all my friends, now plz dont lie to me, can i satisfy a women???? i know that once a girl sees me, even if we are both naked and i have an erection, she will walk out the door and leave me hanging, im ready to kill myself cause im sick and tiered of not being able to enjoy the best thing in life because girls in this era only care about 1 thingso dont lie to me, can i satisfy or not damn it????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Look you are the one who is not accepting your penis size. If you can’t accept what you have then how do you expect others to. Size means nothing if you don’t have technique .You are AVERAGE i.e. the average size erect is 5.1inches- 5.7inches.
The truth, learn more about a women’s anatomy ,the book I recommend is written by Kim Cattrall and Mark Levinson,its called Satisfaction:The Art of the Female Orgasm. Not a cheap book, but you may get a used one from Amazon.
You have a working penis, learn to love it. Get some confidence with women and enjoy what is suppose to come naturally. Think about it your penis won’t let you down it knows what to do. You on the other hand are letting yourself down by not accepting and working with what you got.
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reader, wonderingallthetime +, writes (18 April 2009):
Well, hell yeah you can. I thought the average size pecker was five and a half. Your pretty much there you wrote. 5.4? Damn close. But how does your fear of being small keep you from having sex? Your just afraid some girl will laugh? Its ok man, besides , all the nerve endings are mostly within the first two inches of the vagina the best I can remember and the very most sensitive spot is right on top. The clit. And the main thing that will determine if she likes it is not your normal size pecker. It is YOU just like several people on here have been telling you. It is the motion of the ocean at times, but mainly it boils down to her being attracted to you. Listen to these people on here. I even wondered a time or two if you just made this crap up just see people trying to help some poor scared dude. Start working on a gal or two. I bet there is one or two that would like to jump in the sack with you right now. I say first time go as slow as a turtle even if she is squirming and getting frustrated....then let loose son. Just dont finish inside five minutes. What am I doing? I dont even have a license to give advice like this. Become a Monk? You will be fine. But remember....use it or loose it. On the average , most fall off by age 25 if not used. Sooner if stress is involved. JOKE! Its just a JOKE ok?
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Hi sweety, relax, take a deep breath. Your penis size is fine, you have nothing to worry about, is normal your size, stop fretting. It all about knowing your woman, different things pleases different women and i know alot of women who get more pleasure though foreplay that full on sex. And as was mentioned previously, if a girl walks out, she is not worth i, also not all girls of this era only care about one thing, you will meet someone someday who will accept you for the person you are.
take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): oh come on! you can't blame being unlucky on being "tiny"... even if you were actually tiny, women won't know until they actually are naked with you! You aren't going around with your penis out on display, are you?
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reader, Deema  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Helllllllo young man. Now listen here. This is the God's honest truth. I had a few partners in my time. Most of them average size. My husband of 30 years was more than normal, but what does that mean when you don't want sex? (Him not me) !!! Then we parted, I started meeting different guys, and then I met the most fun guy ever, he was outgoing, a little crazy, confident, and cute. After some time we got down to it and yes, I admit, I was surprised when I saw his size - it probably was truly no more than 3" and then........... we made love, and I can honestly say, and often do.......... it was the best sex I ever had, honest, true to God it was. Because he never had the size, he had learned really how to make love and how to use it well. Pow! It was incredible and I went back for more.... and then more :)))). So forget the size, learn the techniques and what pleases a woman (which porn films by the way won't show you, and I can attest to that too after meeting a sexually inexperienced man who thought that was what women wanted - WRONG!!! - so learn to be loving, tactile, sensuous and then how to use it when you finally get to it. Finally, don't forget, when you drop your pants, she is also very worried about her bum being too big, her breasts too droopy and her belly too fat to worry too much about you. She'll just be grateful she's making love to the man she's in love with. Good luck. Enjoy!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): You aren't a virgin because of your penis size. And 5.4 inches is actually not small at all. My husband's is only about 4.5 and I still get off as long as I am on top. You're a virgin because you're not confident with women, possibly because this is playing into your head. Just chill out and when you meet the right woman (or just a one night stand) it will happen for you. You need to stop thinking this way. If your penis were 3" then I could see your concern. But your size if just fine. After being with my husband, it actually sounds big!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): You're avergage size - definitely not small. And I'm being honest with you, of course you can please a woman! But listen to me honey, if a woman ever looks at you naked and walks out on you, it's her loss because she must be pretty damn shallow! You're better off not wasting time and talents on someone like that honey! Of course you can please a woman, don't be daft :]
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reader, indie girl +, writes (10 April 2008):
It is definately adiquite! It seems the reason you're not getting any is because you have no confidence. 5.4" is around about average! Stop worrying (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Your an idiot virgin mate. It's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean. I've been with men who are well endowed and while it's enjoyable to a degree it get's boring when they don't know what to do and how to move. Now my current boyfriend is smaller than any I've been with but he knows what to do and how to please me.
Your not a virgin because of the size of your cock ok.
Are you so arrogant that you would say that a girls boobs size matters and you won't be with anyone lower than a C?
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reader, ninjalove +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Ok hunny im going to tell you this straight up and this is coming from a female.My boyfriend feels the same way he's about your size.Yes women love men with a big penis and yes it is more pleasurable.I've had sex with about 8-10 guess and there all different.Size doesn't always matter and yes as you hear before it's how you use it.What you do is find a girl who is will to try anything and find her spots.Try different positions.And If that don't seem to work and your still not getting her anywhere try pill's that will make it bigger.Yes it might make you feel ashamed but its worth it.(I've hurd and Not from TV)Your not the only guy in the world with this problem.I've had sex with guys your size and they got me off(one was a virgin).It take time and practice just like anything else.I've scene guys with way smaller penises then you(one guys way 2 inches and that was hard)I didn't have sex with him because of his penis size I didn't cuz I didn't have any kinds of feeling for him and we just met.But I was told he was good.So size doesn't matter.
got any questions don't be afrade to say something
lots of love
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): You could be hung like a horse and you can couldn't satisfy a woman. Honestly, it isn't JUST size. Women don't get turned on by a penis, they get turned on by the person. If you can't turn on a woman's mind then you don't have a hope in the sack.
You want to really know how to stop being a virgin?? Then stop stressing out about it. It's going to happen when it happens. Women can smell desperation a mile away. They want a man who is secure in himself.
And if you think getting a bigger tool will improve the overall look of your building then you are fooling yourself. Have you ever seen a building get structurally better by putting on a new coat of paint? Same thing goes with penis size. You gotta get better and learn that your 'thing' is not all that you are.
Honest, it's your personality that is ruining things. Ever think of learning to pleasure a woman with anything else? Your attitude are the first places to start working.
I am not holding back on this. I had plenty of men in my life and I know we don't give a s*it if you are hung "IF" we are turned on otherwise. It's all about the fantasy dude. Make them want you long before you ever get undressed and you won't have a problem.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): I've heard 3 inches is enough to please a woman.
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