New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*onderingallthetime

United States  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *onderingallthetime to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *onderingallthetime a private message

*onderingallthetime's Ratings
Excellent44%
Average34%
Poor22%

He cheated but says he loves me so he will change. Should I believe him?

Q.   Hi, I wrote earlier about playing mind games with my boyfriend who cheated on me. Two nights ago, he confronted me why I don't hug him anymore nor kiss him. I said to him I am losing interest for a fact that while he is with me, he may be thinking ...

A.   22 April 2009: How will you know you are the one he chose? Well of course one can only guess and many times we have reasons to feel sure we are right in these guesses we make. As sad as it may sound we really never have anyway of knowing for sure. But, if one is ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

Q.   Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

A.   18 April 2009: I was thinking and remembering every word armymedic wrote. So you say your ready for something you have no idea how to do or if you will like it? Your 13, I believe that. I dont think you are stupid. Do what you honestly and truly believe and not ... (read in full...)

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

Q.   i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

A.   18 April 2009:  I had a wife just like what your talking about. She would lie and lie and lie no matter how obvious it was . She did this for two years one time. Yes some people can and will lie to you no matter how obvious and then try to make YOU look like the ... (read in full...)

Size does matter!! Don't lie to me....can I satisfy her or not?

Q.   okay, im a guy with a 5.3 or 5.4 penis, now, no matter how much i read online that "size does not matter" and "its how you use it", ive come to realize its bullshit now, im 20 years old and every one of my friends has had sex at least 4 times, b...

A.   18 April 2009:  Well, hell yeah you can. I thought the average size pecker was five and a half. Your pretty much there you wrote. 5.4? Damn close. But how does your fear of being small keep you from having sex? Your just afraid some girl will laugh? Its ok man, ... (read in full...)

Why won't husband admit to cheating even after getting caught?

Q.   I am agonizing over the thought of accusing my husband of something as terrible as cheating. I have evidence; however, he continues to deny cheating on me and as a result we are in the process of getting divorced. I need to know from people who ...

A.   18 April 2009:  I am so glad I read her story about her husband not fessing up and the answers from everyone. I have had a very simular situation and for someone to be caught in so many lies and still not only denie an affair but try to make it look like its YOU ... (read in full...)

*onderingallthetime's friends

These are mutual friends, so *onderingallthetime has added them and they have added *onderingallthetime!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.109322399999655!