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writes:I just told my bestfriend that my boyfriend (of 6 months) rubbed my boob while we were making out. She immediately asked how I felt about it and I told her it was just for fun at the moment I wouldn't let it lead to anything, sex isn't an option for me.She insists that I need to have 'the sex talk' with him. I explained to her that I think he knows it's not even a possibility. I talk about church functions a lot, he knows I'm devout. Plus I recently told him I disapproved of another friend's 'activities.'Even though my bestfriend is also friends with him and says under normal circumstances he'd never try anything, she now says it sounds like hes trying to find the limit. And by not saying anything I'm asking for him to keep pushing.Should I bring it up? And I'm relatively quiet (and he might be...) about such things... how would I go about doing this without making things awkward then and/or later on? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxbaybeegal  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 the best thing is to no confront him he might get offended in a way, and that might spoil your relationship, if when your making out and he goes over the line just tell him your not ready to go that far then tell him how you feel. and it might work
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi
In your case i would talk to your bf,and gently tell him that you are happy that he is your bf, (of course i am assuming that you are)and set a couple of ground rules, for example only, you dont mind kissing but you dont want him to make contact with your private parts,things along this line that concern you,reassure him that you are happy other wise and see what his reaction is,maybe he is not sure how far he can go with you so it would be safer for you to let him now know how you feel so that he will not go too far.
hope this is helpful to you,be safe.
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reader, rcn +, writes (26 October 2007):
 You know your limit, if he starts to exceed your limit, you just simply move his hand away. He'll know, without actually having to have the talk.
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