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writes:2 weeks ago something happen.....well it all started with my friend betrayed me by telling me my boyfriend was with another girl and then found out later that it wasn't true...but when i did think it was true i said to swear on his mom's grave....he dumped me i appoligize i millions of time and he said he still cares for me and that he hates me for what i said...well then later my grandma dies...my ex-boyfriend and i made love last saturday...then that was the first week...then now it is this week we okay and everything but we made love on tuesday and then he said he wanted to stop after we were done..then now my other frined said i wasn't a good friend to my other friend because what i did to her and i'm like what about my feelings and now i find out my ex boyfriend is going to prom with another girl...and plus i've been sick for a week....does anyone care about my feelings cause i've told my friends about this and the just say i was in the wrong am i?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): C'mon Male anon reader (Nov 8), right below me. She is young and she likely wrote this posting in the midst of emotional adolescent anxiety. Was what you told her, helpful, caring and compassionate? No, it likely you added to her hurt. This site is to aid and assist people with their life problems..not demean and degrade. Please, if you "can't say anything helpful or nice--just don't say it." I have no idea how your posting slipped past our moderators, but sadly..it did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): I'm sorry, I know I'm completely Off-Topic here, BUT you can't even spell, and your tenses are all wrong. Why, when you can't even do child-things correctly (reading and writing), are you doing adult things like HAVING SEX????? There's a reason why children shouldn't be having sex, and it's because you will be an illiterate parent! What kind of an example are you going to be to your child??
GROW UP!!!!
And help youself to a book once in a while ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Sorry but i think you are way too young for all this serious adult stuff. You shouldnt even be having sex at your age. The swearing on peoples grave is a bit sick. You need to grow up and stop all this sex. For goodness sake you sound so childish, which you are. Stop all this tittle tattle with friends.
take care.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Ultimately your friend that lied to you is the person thats in the wrong. You and your boyfriend should be united confront her together (verbally).and let her know what her lies have caused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): The answer is yes you were in the wrong. If you can try to imagine what a mother means to someone and the feelings you would have if your mother was no longer alive, then I sympothise with your boyfriend. Your age tells me you are 13-15 which would mean you shouldn't be 'making love' with anyone. This whole situation is very immature, he says, she says, accusations and lies. It was a immature, insensitive comment and cant be excused as a slip of the tongue.
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reader, rcn +, writes (26 October 2007):
 If his mom is passed, that was not a good thing to say. It's very disrespectful to him, and his feelings.
If they say you're in the wrong. Have them explain why they feel that way.
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