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writes:I was chatting with a customer at work, and he asked for my number, kind of jokingly. I said no. When he came back a little later we chatted some more. When I handed him his receipt, he asked where my number was. As there were customers behind him, I kind of brushed it off, as it wouldn't be professional to be handing out my number like that. He asked if he could at least know my name, and even turned to the other customers and said "I've been here 2 days in a row, and she served me and was really nice and polite, and all I got was her name". He left, telling me to have a good day.So, one of the fellows I work with knows him, and has given me his number. Would it be weird to text him with my number, and explain why I couldn't give him mine while I was at work?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (31 August 2012):
 Are you friends with the fellow you work with? If so you can ask him for some info on this guy, if he's in a relationship or whatnot. If you barely know him then don't bother with that. Yes this guy could be a flirt or whatever but really any guy could be. If you are interested then text him and find out more about him for yourself. I don't agree with waiting for him to come back around. That doesn't show any interest and is playing games, upfront and honest is always the best route to take. He put himself out there not once, twice but three times. It would be nice to reciprocate and explain why you couldn't respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): He sounds as if he could be a bit of a flirt - if your friend knows him, get him to give this guy your number. I would not contact him at this stage - it could all be just banter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): naaa..never... u have to see whether u r important to him or not. he might be doing all this to other girls as well. if he is only a flirt then he will not show interest again because he will look for another grl..but if he shows interest again you can go ahead for friendship.his liking might be genuine.. but be careful..
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reader, ineedyou  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 Sure! Go ahead! Nothing wrong with that! You were just being professional... ask him if you can make it up to him over coffee sometime! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): Not. Wait untill he shows up again. You dont know yet if than man is married or not. Dont rush. Let him persue you.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (30 August 2012):
 If you like him and your interested
text him :)
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