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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I'm falling for this boy who I have known for 15 years. We never really clicked in a romantic way, or never really thought about each other in that way. And now it seems like we are getting along so well that we are almost like the best of friends... we chat every day, we see each other a lot and when we talk it's always in a flirtatious way.But nothing really happens because we both don't really know what is going on I suppose.. and we don't want to make it weird or show it to our other friends (we are in a youth movement together)..What should I do?I don't really want to talk about it with him, because I think it will make it all more weird. And maybe it will turn out all wrong. He isn't the most romantic person either.. you could say he is sort of a "bad boy" but not in his love life.. He never really had a girlfriend before...I already talked about it with one of my friends who also knows him, but she was shocked with my story. She never saw that coming and didn't know how I got myself in this situation. But it all happens without me trying..The most weird part is .. he is 3 years younger than me, my mom hates him and he's a best friend from my brother...I really don't know what to do anymore...Should I try to stop thinking about him and look out for a new flirt?Or should I just keep this going not knowing what is going on?Or is there another way to get my feelings back down... :sThank you for you help ! x
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Hi, firstly falling in love is a very common thing it happens very often and sometime we wish it never happened between two best friends but it does. I'm sorry you are feeling this way but my best advice to you would be forget it ever happened. Reason why:Firstly you say your mum hates him, now if you love your mum and your close to her never go for a guy which your mum does not like it makes things between you and the guy very weird not to mention more hate between you and your mum.Second as you are best friends at the moment yes you have flirts you have a laugh and you are very close as you say but why spoil that honey. If you mention you like him or you are falling in love with him and he does not feel the same way you will spoil your friendship as he may not feel the same and if he does feel the same and you say he is a bad boy you never know to him it may be a little fling and then he may leave you so not only you will get hurt but you will also lose a very close friend.Best to keep it simple and unless you know there are strong signs from his side do not take the first step. hope this helped.
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