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*ommy Crue
writes:OK, I have often wondered about this. I have never been with a virgin but have always wondered if I am missing out. My wife was VERY inexperienced when we got together. 2 guys a total of 3 times.Not sure she could feel any tighter when we first started having sex. No, I wasnt a virgin either. I have read several articles about tightness of a virgin. Is there really anything to it ? I know about the hymen tearing but does a woman really feel less tight after just one time ? or even a few times ? Not like I love my wife any less because she wasn't a virgin. I have just always wondered if there is anything to the "tightness" term or if it is just a myth. I have read both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): I m very tight there, and I'm in my 40s, one child.
I get comments on my tightness down there all the time.
I have pretty regular sex since the age of 19. I think it depends on a person
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reader, daletom +, writes (30 August 2012):
My wife and I were wedding-night virgins. It was rather difficult making that very first entrance - but to be honest, I have no idea how much of that was due to her virginity, how much was my ineptness, and how much was her nervousness. I had nothing to compare it to. The physical and emotional intensity of the experience didn't give me a chance to think about the tightness separately from anything else. And since I released inside her about 20 seconds after entrance there wasn't much time to think about it, either.
Since the changes, if any, happen over a long time it's doubtful I'd really notice. Her overall arousal has A LOT to do with the tightness. Even as newlyweds there were times when we'd make love for an extended time, giving her several orgasms, and she'd be so open and lubricated that I had difficulty getting my orgasm. (When that happened, and if she wanted to end the session, she would offer her ass. Now, THAT is DELICIOUS TIGHTNESS! I never lasted more than a few strokes in her backdoor.)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 August 2012):
 none at all IMO and experience.
I'm 52 I've been sexually active since 14 3 prior husbands...sex partners in the 100s... 2 kids by c-section
there are times my smaller than average fiance can't enter me...it's too tight...
I think the whole "I can tell she's had sex with others" is BS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): BY experience:
the first few times i had sex my vagina felt very loose and wet,my husband could not enjoy it, neither could i. with time as i become active my vagina started to naturally kegel and now it is tighter than before.
i am married to the same guy i lost my virginity to, so my husband can tell about the about the difference also, we both find it interesting that even as i bleed the first time it was no painful or uncomfortable, as a matter of fact i could not feel a thing, we thought it was the wetness of it, but no was the tightness, which has improved with time, as the humidity has no change, i still get just as moist prior to intercourse, so i think it varies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): My wife was a virgin. After three children, she's incredibly loose, but it was children rather than sex that did it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 August 2012):
What difference does it make? As far as "rhetorical" questions go, this is one that could stand to NOT be asked again, ever.....
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 August 2012):
 No, I do not think that having sex causes a loose vagina. Having children might, under certain circumstances, but usually not much. I've had relations with a woman who had eight children, and it still worked for me.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 August 2012):
 Vaginas do not stretch as a result of having sex. A virgin will often be fairly unaroused and be "clenched" up and it would probably feel tighter (and drier), but nothing about a woman's vagina permanently changes after having sex. The only thing that can stretch it permanently is having a baby. Neither of you can feel the hymen tearing.
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