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She used to text me all the time but she has stopped and is now talking to a guy on Facebook...should I be worried?

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Question - (28 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been dating this girl for a little over a month now, and from what I thought we are both madly in love,, we used to text eachother all the time(hundreds of messages a day), but about four days ago she almost stopped texting all together and said her phone was playing up, but I've notice since she stopped texting me all the time she's been talking to a boy on Facebook on her phone, nothing bad just general conversations, and this morning was the first time she didn't text me morning but was already chatting to him on Facebook,, now am I being paranoid or should I be worried??

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A female reader, mammaboo United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2011):

mammaboo agony auntyeah sounds like someone has caught her interests apart from you. This is good though coz it sounds like there was to much to soon for you guys.!

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2011):

hannah76 agony auntHello,

It really depends about what sort of relationship you had over the last month? Did you meet up? Spend time together? Have sex? Go to a few places?

If it was purely online and texts then I would suggest she has just moved on. If it was more than that and involved physical contact etc then she has obviously pulled back. Give this a few days and if things totally take a downturn, then ring her and ask her what is happening in a light way.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2011):

I would say if she's outright lied to you about her phone - and she must have given that she's using it to talk to someone else - then she's probably lost interest and has moved on to this other guy.

I think this girl might not be worth your time anymore. She lied to you and has kind of ruthlessly cut contact without saying anything. Let her go.

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