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writes:Ok. I am selling my condominium. I am sick of working on it. I have found a great deal on an apartment in a neighboring city. The only problem is that the apartment is only about 6 blocks from my most recent ex gf. We dated only 4 1/2 months but I was involved with her and her children and her family. She broke it off with me due to issues with her ex husband. I don't want her to think I am doing this to be close to her. That is the farthest thing from the truth. Should I worry about telling her or running into her? I have no interest in her at all. What should I do about it?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 Don't tell her. And if you do run into her, tell her then. She's your ex, no need to send her any reports on what you do. And, no need to let her conduct what you are to do either. Want to move? Then do so. What she thinks about it is her private business and shouldn't worry you.
Just try to be friendly, seeing as you don't want to be neighbors with a person you try to avoid. It'll just make you scared of walking out the door.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 You don't want her to think you are doing this to be close to her...
She won't unless you tell her. You can't help it if you run into her by coincidence.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 May 2011):
Don't tell her a thing. 6 blocks is far enough away.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Nope, you don't need to inform her that you are moving to her neighborhood, in a few short weeks it will be Your neighborhood too.
IF you run into her, just tell her you got a great deal. Personally I would pretend I had forgotten that she lived there lol. Trust me there will be plenty of other people living there besides you two.
Congrats on the new home.
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