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writes:I'm due to get married soon , but have just found out that my future husband has join a singles web site, and has give out his phone number, and is now having sex txt with this woman,she has also sent him dirty pictures. what should i do . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Hi Alyson
Im glad we could help a little hunny, if you need anything else just ask hunny TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND SQUIDGY HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, alyson +, writes (14 April 2008):
alyson is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the replys, i will be thinking hard and long about our futre together .Its nice to know that if one has a problem that there is people out there with very good advice .Alyson .
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (12 April 2008):
 uh...Don't get married
AHH MY HAND IS BURNING??? WHY????? WHY!!!!!!
i mean... it is over a flame.. but God its hurting like nothing i've felt! and my skins dripping off! wehy does it hurt so much???? What can i do to make it stop?!?!?!
Oh... don't get married? huh that was easy.
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reader, bemused  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Hi hun
I am in agreement with the other posters here in that all I am seeing is future pain for you here. I would suspect that you have that 'uneasy' feeling that people get when their intuition tells them that something is wrong... painful as it is it could be a blessing but you should not, cannot hitch your wagon to this star if this is what is happening. I guess I am wondering how long you have been together and how you met this guy. I really think you owe it to yourself to at the least cool with this guy or cut it clean and let him go. It will hurt and you will probably feel like someone took a big chip at your self worth but in the long run your self worth will begin to rise because you exercised self preservation and self care. I am pretty sure there is someone out there who better suits you. Take care hun xxx
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reader, Deema +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Well I just found out same thing darling. I threw him out straight away. That was 2 weeks ago. Since then we've chatted and I've chatted with guys on here. He still says he doesn't think of these women as real people, they are just a fantasy, but to me once a phone number is exchanged it becomes real. Having said that, who are these women on the tv giving out their numbers for texting to every couple of minutes on the ads? Don't tell me its only single guys who contact them. Are they all to be labelled as being unfaithful? And it has really interested me, because even on here chatting with the other men giving advice, I've found how easy it is to flirt unintentionally, or how things you say can be misconstrued, and it dawned on me that if I were so inclined I could quite easily find myself inthe same position - but difference is I quickly see whats coming and decline anything other than harmless cheekiness. Seems men are more titillated by it and theres sooooooo much out there on offer for them. Having said all that, you're not married to him. Do you want to spend all your time wondering who is calling him, what he's doing on the internet etc etc, or do you want peace of mind? Thats the easiest thing to know and the hardest thing to answer. Especially when you love them. But they ain't gonna change honey, people don't, why should they, they're just being themselves, but if that don't suit you then you have to find someone who does. Sorry to hear of your pain. Best wishes in your decision.
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reader, Smiffy  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Hi...sorry I agree with Mandy...as hard as it is...you wouldnt want to be married to a guy who is already cheating on you......
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Is there any chance you can suggest to him you put things on hold for a while? its pretty obvious he's not marriage material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Im so sorry to here of your pain, But my advice is, Dont get married! If he is doing this now sweetheart whats it going to be like once you have tied the knot...No hunny think very carfully...Your going to be upset as you are now, but at least you found this out before you married him love...PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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