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writes:Is there anything wrong with being Bi? I think I am Bi, Bi-curious at the least... But people have assumed that I was a lesbian in the past and always took the piss out of me for it. Especially anyone who was religious would always be like "ewr... that is so wrong and dicusting". Now I actually think I'm Bi but can't say anything because of what everyone will think... is it wrong to be Bi?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): Nothing at all wrong with it, and at your age I don[t think you need to hang a lifelong title on yourself. One of my dearest freinds has gone from M-F-M-F-M relationships over the last 25 years... she's doing great and is my model for a happy bisexual female. The point of all this is that your preference may change- it's about loving the person, and NOT what sex they are... pick your lovers from you heart. If they're women, then they are... and there's NOTHING wrong with you for that. As for the religous questions- IMO, organized religion can be far too restrictive for the vast majority of people to actually develop a spiritual connection. I prefer to treat my spiritual realationship as a personal matter, where I get a God that is loving and not judgmental. In this relationship, I'm loved and comforted and not hated. You have the freedom to define your own spirtal relationships just like your personal ones. Find one that fits you and adds to your life, not one that makes you feel bad and sinful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Nothing wrong with it... and you're likely to swing back and forth a bit given your age... it's not at all uncommon. Today, there's alot more acceptance with it than there was 25+ years ago. It was still going on, just not as openly.
Love whomever you love... it's in your heart.
The biggest problem you're likely to face is immature boys who think that dating a bi girl is an instant ticket to a 3some...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): No, there's nothing wrong with it. Yes you will get picked on by some, just like everyone who gets picked on who is different. People pressure others to conform. How about overweight children who can't help it on the school ground. If you send children to a Catholic school and they haven't received their uniform yet, they will get picked on for not wearing one, to conform. Everyone is an individual with different beliefs. Young people are inclined to pick and adults do not. Some adults wish to steer their kids in the right direction. What is wrong is hurting and harming yourselves and others. This is not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): no way.there is nothing wrong with being homosexual and take no notice of anyone who says it is.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Religiously i would say its wrong and a sin but sins can be forgiven and if your not religious then it doesn't matter. But i think a lesbian has a much better chance at getting into heaven then a wife beater.Depending on your religion you can read up on it and come to your own decision, the Bible goes into great detail.But some of what you may find may disturb you the way i see it is whats more important full filling your urges in this life or following Gods will and receiving eternal life for your soul Socially its not wrong its not hurting any one.Biologically well opposites are supposed to attract a female and female cant reproduce i would say lesbian/gay is wrong in that sense but bi is more natural some scientist belive most people would be bi if it wasnt for social and religious taboos and beleifs.Some people need something to hate homosexuality is an easy target but its not rte people should be allowed to conduct there personal lives the way the wish with out ridicule as long as its not harmful. go with what your heart theres no rush to decide when its time you will kno what you want. you can experiment and see what your most comfortable with.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 there is NOTHING wrong with been bi hun, dont take any notice of those small minded ppl who cant open their eyes enough to understand its apart of who you are. being bi is something to be proud of :)
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