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writes:I finished with my boyfriend in in July. We had been going out for 6 months and I loved him soo much. I was soo happy with him because he would do anything for me. He meant the world to me but then we started to argue and then my grandad died and I finished things with him. I seen him the other week and it made me realise how much I love him and how much I want him back but now he has a girlfrend and has been with her a month or so. Should I tell him how I feel or should I let the best thing that has ever happened to me disappear? Please reply :( Reply to this Question
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reader, cliffq  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 You should tell him, he probably still loves you to. Plus if u do tell him its not gonna hurt anything. But u should do it because you don't wanna live the rest of ur life with that tick on ur shoulder saying that "What if question, or If I had..."
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 tell him how you feel! you can't let him go like that, without ever telling him. or else it will torment you, not knowing what would his answer be...
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (13 November 2008):
 If you really do love him then for the love of God tell him! I lost someone I love from just not telling him how I felt and I regret it every day. Call him, text him, email, w/e just tell him!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Tell him now before it is too late.....his relationship is only new and he can make a decision, leave it longer and he may have stronger feelings for his new girlfriend and then you will have missed your chance.
I made the same mistake as you, and three years on I still love him but cant get him back. Dont miss your chance, you will regret it forever.
And if he tells you he has moved on and he doesnt want you back, yeah it will hurt like mad but at least you know for sure that you tried.
Life is best lived without regrets!
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (13 November 2008):
 well you could tell him but it might backfire on you and his gf might not be too happy with you. or you could be patient if things really are meant to be with you 2 then try bein his friend be there for him when he's sad and be happy for him when he is. but if you and him were truly happy and you don't care about pissin his gf off tell him the truth but don't put any pressure on him to dump her. i'm sure if your relationship was great he'l be missing you just as much and she's just a rebound girl.
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