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Why do guys and girls never understand each other?

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Question - (13 November 2008) 13 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *oslodelsol writes:

Why do guys and girls never understand each other?

I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

Pluto is distant and cold.Venus is near and dear.Its definitely hotter than Pluto.(laughs)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

Venus is the only planet in the solar system that rotates clockwise. Since women are associated with Venus, what does that tell you?

The only conclusion I can come to is that it's upside down.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

I always had an underlying suspicion that I was wrong.I am sure the source planet is Pluto now.They must have invented Tom Tom Sat Navs light years ago.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

I disagree!

How would you say "Get 'em off!" without speaking? (:o)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

Hi

IF men and women simply did what they were meant to...and made love all of their lives! never spoke a word to each other...there would be no problem.

v.c.d.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

Pssst...a secret.I think Men are aliens who have come from another planet.I believe its Mars as its the nearest planet.They wouldn't definitely have come from Pluto as its too far and they don't like to ask for directions.I guess they are just fooling us that they are humans.sigh.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

A man was walking along the beach at Malibu when he found an old glass bottle. He could see something inside, but the glass was dark green and scratched ... so he opened it.

A Genie appeared and thanked the man for letting him out. The Genie said, "For your kindness I will grant you one wish, but only one."

The man thought for a minute and said, "I have always wanted to go to Hawaii, but have never been able to because I'm afraid of flying and ships make me claustrophobic and ill. So, I wish for a bridge to be built from here to Hawaii."

The Genie thought for a few minutes and said, "No, I don't think I can do that. Just think of all the work involved with the pilings needed to hold up the highway and how deep they would have to be to reach the bottom of the ocean. Think of all the concrete that would be needed, not to mention the surfacing, drainage systems, lighting ... No, that is too much to ask."

The man thought for a minute: "There is one other thing that I have always wanted. I would like to be able to understand women. What makes them laugh and cry, why are they temperamental, why are they so difficult to get along with? Basically, what makes them tick?"

The Genie scratched his beard and thought about this request for a few moments.

"So, do you want two lanes or four?"

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A male reader, the one who doesn't know Portugal +, writes (13 November 2008):

the one who doesn't know agony auntbecause they are a lot different. it's not just guys and girls. it's girls and girls, guys and guys... the only thing that makes guys and girls more different is that they're bodies and part of their mentalities are different. if there was a study about every single person, about some REALLY subjective thing, you would see that some guys would think the same as girls. but this is just the presentation, to the fact that guys can't understand girls, because they are more sensittive, more delicate, more gentle and more frightened. and girls can't understand guys 'cause they don't care that much with their problems, because they are less delicate...of course i'm generalizing a lot, but it's a bit what i'm saying...

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

You've obviously got a problem so why not post that rather than posting a vague generalisation?

Not all women are the same, and not all men are the same.

There is no set of rules. If you think there is and tried to squish your man into a smal labelled box then that may be where you have gone wrong.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, samsmommy United States +, writes (13 November 2008):

samsmommy agony auntNo one knows lol. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Girls use sex to get love and guys use love to get sex"? I think part of it might be because we're on 2 different playing fields. I'm not saying that phrase is always accurate, but it seems to be the case a lot of the time.

hope i helped but i doubt i did :)

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (13 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntThe age old question that has both sexes baffled!

LOL If you are interested I have about 5 ebooks I could send to you for a small fee on that very topic. You can check out the ebook yourself if you search - catch him and keep him - I have a few others like that. If you're interested use the message feature here and I'll respond. They cost about $50! LOL

But I could send all 5 to you in your email for $5 if you have paypal. I sell them on ebay and if you like I can tell you my ebay ID so you can see I am not scamming you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

woman are more emotional..men just "do things" sometimes without thinking or analysing it..then when we shout at them they dont listen..thats why its best to calmly tell them what they have done wrong (well try to lol)

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntit's because there both to afraid to tell eachother what they really want and they think its needy to open upto eachother if they actually talked about things they could work things out but one person in the relationship is always too scared to be the vulnerable one because they are scared that the other person will leave. love is a weakness.

hope that helped

x

guys and gals do understand eachother and half the time they have the same worries and insecurities but theyd die of embarasment to tell eachother them.

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