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writes:Hey all, My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and im still very much in love with him... Im one of these girls that 'love to much' so i find it hard to move on, but im trying very hard. He's moved on and is seeing other people. I work with him and his dad, but he is on holidays this week. I am very close to his dad and I know that he went to hosplital last week and hasnt been in since. I really want to text my ex to ask if his father is ok, but is that just hanging on?? Is it a stupid idea to get intouch with him. Especially when i know he really had no interest in me and never texts me anymore. Also i dont want him to think that i still want to be with him.. would it seem like that if i text him??
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reader, lilmisse2424  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 I kinda know what you are going through, and I am going through it too again, so, from my experience, do not call. you can text him showing your concern about his dad and wish his father well. he may or may not respond, but at least knows that people care. also, it wouldn't hurt to wish your ex well and all the best too, and if he does, great. if not, there are better men out there.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Yes, by all means text only. at least he'll know your concerned about his dad. If he's still interested, more will follow. If not, let it go. I know it hurts, but you will be better off not drawing for straws. More fishes in the big wide sea...and you're young enough to bait 'em!
What I mean is, another nice man will come along and knock your sox off!
Best, Gena Bullock
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): You can text him. I wouldn't call, but send him a text letting him know you have an idea you know about his dad and you wish him the best. Don't leave it an open message expecting a response back. Just let him know you wish his father the best. If he wants to respond he will. If he doesn't...well he wasn't expected to anyway. Despite how he feels about you, it's always nice to know people care. Unless he has some inflamed ego, I can't possibly think he would think you're hanging on and want to be with him (unless you've been incessantly trying to contact him).
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