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writes:My fiancee wants me to get a clitoral hood piercing. I work in OB/GYN, and I fear all the horrible things that could go wrong (infection, ruining my sex life etc..)Any experience from anyone out there? Is it really that big of a turn on or sexual pleasure for me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): NO DONT DO IT because it could go worng like birdynumnums say my body my choice!!!!
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reader, Amph  +, writes (17 January 2011):
I consider myself an opened mind, but really I don't understand...seriously, a piercing in the most beautiful magical place in this dirty world? Are you so disappointed with your sexual life to make it worse? For what? Again: it's clear that is what your fiancee wants. And what about what YOU want? The partner's wishes shouldn't overcome yours. Let him put all piercing he wants in his body and do nothing to mutilate what won't be possible to repair tomorrow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): Hey, im 18 and got mine done the day after my 18th after wanting one for years. I dont agree with being forced into one or doing it without being 100% sure either. It hasnt enchanced much pleasure for me but to get the maximum effect you have to have the hole stretched, similar to the ear lobe stretching but just not as extreme. For me, it is a huge turn on to see it down there, it is so cute and not at all obtrusive. But, obviously i cant speak for your sexual pleasure.I cleaned mine with warm water and nothing else twice a day for weeks and havent had any pain (except getting it done) or bleeding (again, except for a few hours after getting it done - i wore a panty liner that day and night just in case). If you look after it properly and go to a decent place i dont see any reason that you wil get infected. If you dont like it, you can get it took out after 8 weeks or changed if you really do like it! I never got mine changed as i like the size it is now. My advice? Research, research and research some more but remember what one person feels, might not apply to you. Mine hurt like nothing before for like 20 seconds at best. Good luck! x
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 If it's not your idea and you would had never considered doing it in the first place; then I would tell your fiance to get a Prince Albert first and after that; you might entertain considering it. Yowzers.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prince_Albert_piercing
I'm sure you will get both positive and negative comments on piercings; but none of them will be able to accurately explain what YOU can expect to happen with you own body - everyone is different. In considering this - I'd go worst case scenario - and why risk it if it's not your own choice? Desensitized clit? Blood infections? Allergic reactions? I'm very attached to my hoo-hoo and what it can do, I'd hate to risk it!
Frankly, piercing the most delicate and responsive place on my body at someone else's request seems a wee bit pushy - kind of like men who LOVE their girlfriends but then rag on them to get boob jobs.
I say My body - my choice. Just my opinion - for what it's worth.
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reader, wornoutmommy +, writes (17 January 2011):
 NOOO!!! Don't do it!
I've gotten lots of piercings/tattoos and fully enjoy being able to get them, but that is a piercing I would not recommend to anyone. I myself have not gotten it, but I have researched it and talked to my piercing expert friend about it. About 5-10% of women actually will get stimulation from getting the piercing, but that sensation fades-quickly. Most women wish they'd never gotten it because even after taking it out and it healing, all sensation is gone, completely, forever. For a temporary pleasure, I do not believe it is worth it.
However, something that is much better is 'ticklers'... It's something that your man puts on (like a c*ck ring) that vibrates on your clit. If a ring doesn't stay on your man, then get a finger 'tickler' and use it on yourself during the whole process. Vibrators are much healthier for women's stimulation that a piercing that severs nerves. :)
Hope this helps!
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