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30-35,
*xxxhoneyxxxx
writes:I've liked this guy Mark* for 7 months. He's soooo sweet, really nice and caring. I'd being putting these notes in his locker and signing them off 'your secret admirer' and my friend gave him my no. so he could text me but he only knew me as his secret admirer. Then he started guessing if it was me and started asking my friend about it. And one time i asked him did he know who i was and he said my real name. He'd being texting me for about 2 and a half months. He even accepted to be my valentine. On April Fools Day he texted me ' i have a girlfriend' but then said 'APRIL FOOLS!' Then about 2 weeks ago he texted me 'i really do have a GF'. And I asked him why are u even texting me and he said 'because your nice and fun to talk to'. I was sooooooooo upset. I cried for like 3 days non stop. I told my friends and they're like 'he's not worth your tears, move on from him.' Then recently my friend pranked him and said i (AND SHE SAID MY REAL NAME SO HE KNOWS NOW) had a boyfriend and i went along with it for a laugh. Then he text me' i heard you have a new guy' and i said 'everyone's happy now you have your girl and i got my guy.'......THEN he text back 'I wish that was the case'Then i asked him 'whats wrong?' and he said 'oh nothing'... WHAT DOES IT MEAN??? Is he getting back at me for being mad at him? Is he trying to get with me? Is he jealous?Please helpxxxxxx
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reader, jerblaine  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 He either meant that he didn't have his girl and was just staying it matter of factly OR that he what he wants is you.It is one or the other. It is hard to tell with guys like this because they are so AFRAID to say they like you. They feel like it makes them wussy. Also they are afraid of being rejected.If you really like him, tell him you want to dump your bf for him and see what what he says.ORYou can now be his friend and see if he pursues you and tries to take you away from your bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): He's a spa, better off just getting rid of this game-playing fool. He's trying to wreck your head and he's succeeding.
Trust your friends when they say he's not worth it, if he's messing with you now he'll think it's always okay to mess with you, delete his number and ignore his texts.
If he wants to speak to you he'll have to talk to you face to face, that way you can see for yourself what he's really up to.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 Sounds like he's playing you. I'm sure someone else would LOVE to have that kind of attention. If you step back and take a good hard look at him, he's probably not all that you think he is
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