I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).
Q. I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...
A. 29 April 2009: Well she went down some more pounds which is great but there is still 100 pounds to go. As long as the weight keeps going down I feel good....but she likes to cheat and eat which is extremely frustrating to me.
Unfortunately, I am not in a positi... (read in full...)
I feel too fat, he says too thin ...
Q. I'm 5'2" and 97 lbs. My boyfriend of four years is 5'7" and 185 lbs. I constantly feel overweight, though. I feel like I want to lose at least ten pounds! My boyfriend tells me I'm crazy for thinking that. That I'm stunningly beautiful the way I am ...
A. 26 April 2009: Believe your boyfriend!! He wants you to have more cushion for his pushin. You are not fat. You are a tiny person. You will look great if you gain 10 pounds!! You will look so healthy and happy!! ... (read in full...)
I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?
Q. I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...
A. 26 April 2009: Find the guys who like big girls. Also find some big guys. There are personals websites for big people and those who like them. There ARE guys out there who will prefer you over the smaller girls.
You must remain confident no matter what thou... (read in full...)
Are guys immediately turned off by a slightly overweight girl??
Q. I am in college and have always struggled with my weight somewhat but I've never been overweight to the point of being unhealthy. I have always been a very active person and I love to play sports. I am 19, 5'5.5" and I weigh 175 pounds but i have ...
A. 26 April 2009: Yes most guys like smaller trim girls. He knows you are bigger but he still loves you. He sees past it. Some guys are able to see past it and love you for you. It sounds like you got lucky with this guy.... (read in full...)
How to attract males when overweight and unattractive?
Q. I am a 21 year old female who is very overweight and unattractive. I am attempting to tackle my weight issue, but it is going slowly. No men ever show any interest in me, while my other friends are constantly getting male attention or are in...
A. 26 April 2009: There are some men who are into big girls. Join some personals websites for big people and those who like big people. Seriously there are guys out there who will like you! You have a niche in the market now you just have to find your target ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!
Q. HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is ...
A. 26 April 2009: Missing calls from prison is just part of the territory. You can't get upset about it. You are living your life outside while he is inside. If there is a pattern to when he calls, then don't do anything during those hours.
You will catch the next... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for what he did or just get over him?
Q. I've liked this guy Mark* for 7 months. He's soooo sweet, really nice and caring. I'd being putting these notes in his locker and signing them off 'your secret admirer' and my friend gave him my no. so he could text me but he only knew me as his ...
A. 26 April 2009: He either meant that he didn't have his girl and was just staying it matter of factly OR that he what he wants is you. It is one or the other. It is hard to tell with guys like this because they are so AFRAID to say they like you. They fee... (read in full...)
I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).
Q. I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...
A. 26 April 2009: Well so far I see a huge difference between male and female answers....so now I am really wishing I was a guy who is into plus-sized women, or a guy who can easily do sexual activities without being attracted. It may be low self-esteen for her ... (read in full...)
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