A
female
age
30-35,
*ady blue
writes: hi this is a long story but i'll try to make it as short as i can! when i was in the 8th grade i used to like soeone who we became very close (he'd call me at least once a day) then all of a sudden we stopped talking i asked why he'd never tell then in 10th grade(last year) i liked another guy but i didn't want to tell my friends about him so i told them about by 8th grade crush so by this why i started to have back my feelings for him..these friends were not too close to me but then my crush asked (after we started to talk to each other back again) if i'd ask my friend if she would go out with his friends..so i went and asked her she didn't want...long story short she had been asked before many times and always said no..then she told me to give her his email so she cud tell him that she doesn't want to go out with his friends i didn't want her to have the email but i cudn't say no ..then she started talking to him and getting too close to him they's sit on a table and talk with another friend present all the sxhool thought they were dating...so 3months ago she asked me if shecan ask me a question i said sure she then told me do u still love him i said no way..she then told me that i used to like him but now nothing that is after i had asked her if there is something with my semi x and her saying no..so now we don't talk mostly i don't she tried to reconnect i didn't want to ..so do u think i did the right thing...what should i do ? do i forgive her?? tell her back friends?? what should i do confront her?plz help...serious trouble
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reader, nologo +, writes (24 March 2007):
You definitely should not confront her.
It will not help you in whatever way, only increase the tension.
Some feelings for your 8th grade crush you still have at the moment.
I don't think you did right telling her, but you cannot forgive her.
Now you two don't talk and this is normal - time is needed.
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