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writes:I fancey this bloke at work and slept with him once. i know now he likes me and i like him. He is not making any further moves because his friend likes me.The other problem is im with someone else and have been for 6 yrs its getting very boring i dont know if i love him anymore.i feel so lonley and confused i dont have any close friends to go out with and the only social life i have is with work colleges on work nights out. should i forget about the work guy or finish my long term relationship.
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Only you know this answer. Ask yourself if you were happy with your b/f before you met this work guy? Maybe you are just curious and infatuated with the thought of a new guy. But...you have cheated on your b/f now! That is a sure sign that your relationship is in trouble. You need to have a long talk with your b/f and see what he's feeling about your relationship. 6 years? Is it going anywhere? ARe you two talking of marriage and that kind of thing?..Don't throw it away if you think your b/f is worth it.
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reader, salsere +, writes (21 January 2007):
6 years is a hell of a long time to just flush down the pan!!
If things are getting boring with your partner then you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel, find new ways of putting a new spark into your relationship.
I know it takes two to tango and he will have to also put some effort in, but at least try and give it a go, make a fresh start with your partner. If then it doesnt work at least you know your have given it 110%
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