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writes: How do you know when your ready for DIVORCE? Both financially and emotionally?
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reader, zecky +, writes (21 January 2007):
do you have children? make sure they get support from both parents if you do, and be nice to your spouse. if you don't then, if you're asking this question but is not sure, maybe you should have a talk with your spouse to get some things sorted out - then have a romantic evening out or something, putting all the stress behind you and take it from there. all the best.
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reader, Juliette +, writes (21 January 2007):
It is too much of a bland question as although I appreciate there has to be some financial ability to make the break, I would say there is that time when you know for certain that you cannot stay with that person to whom you are married for ever. As a result, you would be emotionally independent and that maybe in itself part of the problem as there would be that loss of attachement you would expect in a successful marriage. Having said that, I am about to file for divorce and there is no set criteria for feelings. You can still have some emotional attachment yet know it is not enough to sustain a lifetime of living with someone. There are other issues such as sex, companionship, compatability, many other ingredients to a relationship that come into deciding whether you can stay with someone.
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