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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey every1, I have a problem I have been with my bf for about 3 years and things are Ok but i have recently (3 months) meet this new guy and we have become quite close and my feeling are all over the place, My bf i rele close wit my family n stuff so i rele dnt noe what to do. PLEASE Help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Just because u hav got close with a guy u want to dump your BF even tho things are ok?!!! How do u even kno he likes u like that....even if he does i dont relly see the point if ur happy anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): well to be honest if u jump at the chance of a 'new relationship' with every guy u get close with your never going to have properly settled relationship! especially as u think things are OK with ur current BF.
imagine this: u dump your BF(that u kno is som1 u can like being with, since u hav been going out for 3yrs!) for this new guy(som1 u dont really kno wot a long term relationship with will be like)...u then realise actually the relationship with this new guy isnt wot u thort it wud be BUT your old BF has now moved on to someone else! It cud very well happen!
Think about things very carefully before u do anything because u cud end up seriously screwing things up!!!
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reader, salsere +, writes (21 January 2007):
3 Years is a long time, maybe you should try new things with your partner before you throw it all away on a new man.
dont give up on your partner just because another man is paying you some attention, you fell inlove with your man for a reason, get that spark back with him.
talk to your partner tell him you want to sbruse things up a bit because it feels like the relationship is getting into old habbits. try new things together and go out together more often.
if then you feel its not working, at least you know you gave it your all
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