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*ayleigh K
writes:Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I love him so much and want this baby. He insists that he doesnt want to be with me and has been going out with his mates every night since he split up with me.I feel absolutely crushed.I dont want anybody else and hate the injustice of him going out and chatting up other woman whilst I am carrying his baby.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 you shouldn't fight to stay with him if he says he doesn't want to be with you. just let him do what he wants to do as hard as it may be to do that. being single with a baby (which is my situation) is so much nicer than being with the father of your child who could care less about being with you. sorry if its harsh and i hope it helps.
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reader, Faybelline +, writes (2 October 2008):
 While it may be painful, specially considering your pregnant, you have to consider what is best for you as well as what's best gor your child.If he insists he doesn't want to be with you, why waste your time? There'll be plenty of other men out there who do want to be with you and treat you with respect; men being the operative word here as your current boyfriend sounds like he's acting more like a child.It may not be easy right now, but one day you'll be so happy and will wonder why you were even bothered about this boy; he's the one that should feel bad, not you.
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reader, Deema +, writes (2 October 2008):
 Sorry to sound harsh darling, I can hear your pain, but how would you feel if he came back to you and while you were alone with the baby he was out doing whatever he is doing now? You'd feel so anxious with having a baby to deal with and another child whos big enough to know better. I know its hard, but get yourself all the support you can via social services, hospital, doctor, baby clinic, friends, family etc, and you'll do just fine. You'll have a wonderful new life to think about soon. Make that your first priority and let that low life go. He'll never be any good to you if he can't support you at this very important time. Someone better is waiting out there for you. Think about you and the baby and no one else. Lots of love xx
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